This Urban Dating Tip is Hip-Hop Comedy for the ages! Urban Dating Tip #11 is a rule that every relationship psychology book out will teach you. It's a laugh in Hip-Hop culture but so serious! Do not speak your mind as you want to in most relationshps. Some girls can take the brute Caveman type honesty but even more cannot. Pick your words wisely and say what you want to say in a smooth manor!