This Urban Dating Tip is Hip-Hop Comedy for the ages! Urban Dating Tip #7 should be something everyone knows already. The first person to say the word "Hungry" on a date will 99% of the time be the one paying. For some reason, girls have mastered the art of letting the guy say this first. They are just as hungry as us but ladies just refuse to pay for the food majority of the time. Enjoy the laugh!