This Urban Dating Tip is Hip-Hop Comedy for the ages! Urban Dating Tip #8 is plain out common sense. Eventhough there's exception to every rule of man, 10 of 11 girls will not appreciate you starring at her cleavage. A compliment might not bug her or just a comment, but most girls have a pet peeve about you not looking them in eyes. Breasts do come in twos for your 2 eye balls to look at but trust, you're way better off looking in her eyes. Using this rule can avoid a smacking, verbal thrashing, and more.